Father and Mother Wound

The bonds we form with our parents are often the first and most influential relationships of our lives. These relationships shape our understanding of love, trust and emotional safety. However, when unmet needs, neglect or harmful dynamics occur, they can leave emotional scars often referred to as the father wound and mother wound. These wounds aren’t just about what happened in childhood: they influence how we see ourselves, how we relate to others and the choices we make as adults. They have a deep impact on the rest of our lives. Many people carry these wounds unknowingly, unaware that their struggles with self-worth, boundaries, or emotional intimacy may stem from early family dynamics. Left unaddressed, these imprints can create cycles of unfulfilling relationships, self-sabotage, or even physical health challenges like chronic stress or anxiety.