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Mindset Explained - Hypo-arousal vs Hyper-arousal - Window of Tolerance

Hypo-Arousal and Hyper-Arousal: Nervous System Dysregulation

Do you recognize feeling completely numb, shut down and disconnected from the world around you? Like you’re physically present but mentally somewhere far away? Or maybe you’ve experienced the opposite; feeling constantly on edge, anxious and unable to relax. These two extremes, known as hypo-arousal and hyper-arousal, are clear signs that your nervous system is out of balance.

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Mindset Explained - Bessel van der Kolk - Great Minds

Bessel van der Kolk: A Leading Authority in Trauma Research

Great Minds Explained

When we talk about trauma, we often think of its psychological impacts: emotional scars, PTSD or the pain that is felt long after the event. Bessel van der Kolk, a Dutch-American psychiatrist, has changed how we understand and treat trauma in a way that goes further than the mind. His work in the fields of psychiatry and trauma research has not only transformed how trauma is treated but has also made me a better coach by deepening my understanding of how trauma manifests both in the body and the brain.

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Mindset Explained - Heat Therapy - Relax - Muscles

Sauna: Heal Your Mind & Body with Heat Therapy

Lifestyle Articles

Self-improvement has fascinated me for a long time, both physically and mentally. Every time I come across new theories or methods that can improve the quality of my life, I got filled with curiosity to learn more about the topic. Like many others, I’ve struggled to maintain balance, especially when it comes to managing stress, staying focused and prioritizing overall well-being. I know that hitting the gym is essential for my physical health, and even more so for my mental well-being. The gym I go to has a sauna and after an intense workout, stepping into the heat feels like a well-earned reward. But over time, I realized that the benefits of a sauna extend further than just relaxation and soothing sore muscles. My curiosity grew, and I became increasingly fascinated by how powerful a sauna visit can be for both body and mind.

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Mindset Explained - Fight - Flight - Freeze - Fawn - Trauma Responses

Fight, Flight, Freeze & Fawn: Trauma Responses Explained

Psychology Articles

Have you ever found yourself snapping in anger, avoiding a difficult conversation, feeling completely numb or going out of your way to keep the peace? Even when it doesn’t serve you? You feel like you respond to situations in a way you would like to do differently. And yet, you do what you do, even if it is not helping you or it is not a proper response to the situation in this present moment. These instinctual reactions are trauma responses, automatic survival mechanisms deeply wired into your nervous system. Fight, Flight, Freeze, and Fawn are protective responses designed to shield you from emotional or physical pain. While these responses may have once been necessary for survival, they can persist long after the original danger has passed, shaping your behaviour in ways that may no longer serve you.

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Mindset Explained - Polyvagal Therapy - Theory - Nerve System

Polyvagal Therapy Explained: Heal Your Nervous System

Therapy Articles

We all experience moments where we don’t feel completely at ease. Perhaps you’ve been in a situation where you had to speak in front of a crowd. You prepared well, felt confident and then suddenly stress takes over. Your heart starts racing, your hands become clammy and a tight knot forms in your stomach. Or maybe you’ve found yourself in a heated argument, but instead of responding, you completely shut down. Your mind goes blank and you struggle to find words. These reactions aren’t just “in your head”, they’re deeply wired into your nervous system. Polyvagal therapy focuses on understanding and regulating these automatic responses, helping you regain control over your emotions and reactions in stressful situations.

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Digital Detox: The Positive Impact on Your Mental Health

Mindset Articles

We all know how easy it is to get caught in the cycle of endless scrolling. Each notification feels like an urgent call to check our phones immediately. I believe our devices are designed to demand our attention at all times, with developers using psychological tricks to keep drawing our attention. The pull of social media is particularly strong during times of stress or when we feel disconnected from the world around us. In those moments, it’s clear how quickly social media can cloud our minds, draining our energy and leaving us feeling overwhelmed. A Digital Detox will offer the mental reset we need to reclaim our focus and well-being.

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Systemic Therapy for Family Conflict: How It Works & Its Benefits

Therapy Articles

Family conflict can be a heavy burden, affecting the emotional well-being of each member and straining relationships. It’s often more than just an occasional argument: unresolved issues can cause long-lasting damage, leading to feelings of resentment, frustration and even isolation. Whether it’s disagreements between parents and teenagers, sibling rivalry or generational gaps, family conflict can create a toxic environment that makes it difficult for members to feel heard, supported and understood. Systemic therapy offers a powerful approach to addressing these challenges, helping families break through these barriers and rebuild healthier, more effective communication.

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Mindset Explained - Trauma - What is it - How to Heal

Trauma: What It Is, How It Impacts You and How to Heal

Psychology Articles

You’ve likely heard the term “trauma” in conversations or online, but what does it really mean? Trauma isn’t just about experiencing something difficult—it’s about how certain events overwhelm our ability to cope and leave a lasting impact on our emotional, mental, and even physical well-being. It’s a deeply personal experience, varying from one individual to another, and it doesn’t always stem from dramatic, life-altering events. Sometimes, seemingly small or everyday occurrences can have a profound effect, shaping how we view ourselves, others, and the world around us.

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Mindset Explained - ADHD - Self Development

Meditation and ADHD: Struggle or Solution for a Clearer Mind?

Lifestyle Articles

When I first started meditating, I wasn’t aware that I had ADD. At the time, I just thought my mind was constantly racing, and that staying focused was a personal struggle I couldn’t quite control. Sitting still and concentrating felt like a mental challenge I couldn’t easily overcome, but I assumed everyone else experienced the same thing, so I thought it was normal. While it’s true that everyone can have a whirlwind of thoughts at times, for neurodivergents, it’s often more intense and harder to manage. Not knowing I had AD(H)D, this constant mental chaos felt both frustrating and overwhelming.

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Mindset Explained - Father Wound - Mother Wound - Healing

Father and Mother Wound: How to Heal and Break Free

Psychology Articles

The bonds we form with our parents are often the first and most influential relationships of our lives. These relationships shape our understanding of love, trust and emotional safety. However, when unmet needs, neglect or harmful dynamics occur, they can leave emotional scars often referred to as the father wound and mother wound. These wounds aren’t just about what happened in childhood: they influence how we see ourselves, how we relate to others and the choices we make as adults. They have a deep impact on the rest of our lives. Many people carry these wounds unknowingly, unaware that their struggles with self-worth, boundaries, or emotional intimacy may stem from early family dynamics. Left unaddressed, these imprints can create cycles of unfulfilling relationships, self-sabotage, or even physical health challenges like chronic stress or anxiety.

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